Never let anyone control everything you do. You are your own person and your happiness should be your number one priority. If anything gets close to threatening your happiness, get rid of it right away. I’m kind of a hermit. I don’t like to share too much of my information with others. I don’t feel the need to allow people to tell me what to do. I would rather stay by myself than to constantly be around others. I do like to be around my husband and my yorkie, but that’s about it. They’re the only two that let me be. They are chill and they’re never controlling.
I’ve found that my own happiness is so precious that I am constantly on guard. I will never let anyone take it away from me. I find that staying away from people creates less drama and more peace in my life. My closest friends are the ones that I let in my life, but I am very picky about who I spend my time with.
If you are like me, then you understand. I never want to let a day pass where I am unhappy or miserable because of someone else. My life is mine. And I am happy.